Young children play a very important role in our lives. As parents we provide them with rules and expectations, as a guide to growing up. We are willing to see, is well equipped people who are directly in this wild world. We expect that if they are still young. But after a quick transition to the window after growing. At the time they reach their teens, they have the natural ability naked nuts in no time, defying all the rules.
At work, we may be able to cope with the most difficult situations, which deal with the most customers, or to the best decisions under stress. But what is your first line of defence in the house? How successfully cope with these young know-it-all?
Teens and sex
Young people are constantly warned about what would happen if you hang with the wrong crowd, but a new study shows that when it comes to prejudices and stereotypes, friends do not have much influence. The study by psychologist Harold D. Fishbein, Ph.D., sociologist and Neal Ritchey, Ph.D., found no significant effect on the attitude of friends on a young man with prejudices and stereotypes.
We have to live in a world where they still believe that the boys can be sexually aggressive and it is the duty of the girls to resist sexual advances
As the young are concerned, their main source of information about sexuality are friends, books and pornographic films. Parents are their informants. Many parents give only the ban without explaining the actual process. Many times, their parents tacit youth in silence when he talks about a friend of the opposite sex. Instead, the parents and the discussion should also welcome the invitation for your teenager, friends and together they have a healthy home. "
Teen too busy
In today's competitive world, must be fought and fought that in this dynamic, more uncertain environment, which is also the stress and anxiety-inducing.
Teenagers feel basically three kinds of pressure today: the pressure to perform, the pressure to reach, the pressure for reform
The pressure on the results: the pressure to perform comes mainly from parents, teachers and classmates, and the academic world. The lack of trials or the tendency for the student's preference is pushed into the box in May or not interested in what they are equipped.
The pressure on the game: In addition to the pressure to perform well, they're often told that they must adapt to the norms of society. The call for reform: This is especially important that the students aged 13 to 17 May, when it was told that excited and what to do ... Here is what can be done - Fear: signs of stress the economy is one of the breathing. The easiest way to quiet breath periodically tries calm your mind.
Jobs: They must understand that it is strong enough to cope with the difficult challenges in life, learning tasks, and two of them.
Otálení: Procrastinators should feed "the beginning of the art", and it is also about the less experienced discomfort while initially very reluctant task. Then he began to work, it's much easier to continue.
Fire aggression conflict: When is permanent, one runs the risk that aggressive. During the heated discussions, verbal duels, disagreement or discussion makes it clear that even if you are not in favor of the views of others, you're open to what he said.
Other: Some students are worried about factors such as social and economic status, intelligence and habits, which they may differ from their peers.
Would you let your teen know what your values and you discuss any matter or answer questions. With teenagers, parents, the reasons for his decision, and promote dialogue, if at all possible. It is also important that parents recognize and listen to their young 'thinking and feeling that they understand. Kázně in the teens, not only to the rules, it is about young people learn values, an attempt to adult behavior and responsibility. His their obligations and it must do so by virtue of their youth. Parents need their childhood a gift of love and understanding for their feelings. The most valuable gift parents can give children their gift.
At work, we may be able to cope with the most difficult situations, which deal with the most customers, or to the best decisions under stress. But what is your first line of defence in the house? How successfully cope with these young know-it-all?
Teens and sex
Young people are constantly warned about what would happen if you hang with the wrong crowd, but a new study shows that when it comes to prejudices and stereotypes, friends do not have much influence. The study by psychologist Harold D. Fishbein, Ph.D., sociologist and Neal Ritchey, Ph.D., found no significant effect on the attitude of friends on a young man with prejudices and stereotypes.
We have to live in a world where they still believe that the boys can be sexually aggressive and it is the duty of the girls to resist sexual advances
As the young are concerned, their main source of information about sexuality are friends, books and pornographic films. Parents are their informants. Many parents give only the ban without explaining the actual process. Many times, their parents tacit youth in silence when he talks about a friend of the opposite sex. Instead, the parents and the discussion should also welcome the invitation for your teenager, friends and together they have a healthy home. "
Teen too busy
In today's competitive world, must be fought and fought that in this dynamic, more uncertain environment, which is also the stress and anxiety-inducing.
Teenagers feel basically three kinds of pressure today: the pressure to perform, the pressure to reach, the pressure for reform
The pressure on the results: the pressure to perform comes mainly from parents, teachers and classmates, and the academic world. The lack of trials or the tendency for the student's preference is pushed into the box in May or not interested in what they are equipped.
The pressure on the game: In addition to the pressure to perform well, they're often told that they must adapt to the norms of society. The call for reform: This is especially important that the students aged 13 to 17 May, when it was told that excited and what to do ... Here is what can be done - Fear: signs of stress the economy is one of the breathing. The easiest way to quiet breath periodically tries calm your mind.
Jobs: They must understand that it is strong enough to cope with the difficult challenges in life, learning tasks, and two of them.
Otálení: Procrastinators should feed "the beginning of the art", and it is also about the less experienced discomfort while initially very reluctant task. Then he began to work, it's much easier to continue.
Fire aggression conflict: When is permanent, one runs the risk that aggressive. During the heated discussions, verbal duels, disagreement or discussion makes it clear that even if you are not in favor of the views of others, you're open to what he said.
Other: Some students are worried about factors such as social and economic status, intelligence and habits, which they may differ from their peers.
Would you let your teen know what your values and you discuss any matter or answer questions. With teenagers, parents, the reasons for his decision, and promote dialogue, if at all possible. It is also important that parents recognize and listen to their young 'thinking and feeling that they understand. Kázně in the teens, not only to the rules, it is about young people learn values, an attempt to adult behavior and responsibility. His their obligations and it must do so by virtue of their youth. Parents need their childhood a gift of love and understanding for their feelings. The most valuable gift parents can give children their gift.
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