Slowing Down to Speed Up

Why does it seem that everything should be done at warp speed these days? It seems that the older a person gets, the faster the years fly. This is because we have so much work, and in such a hurry that we miss all the time caught in trivial tasks? Why, when we were kids, it seems like it would be so much time and was so slow? Think back to when you were a child, and the summer seemed to stretch on forever. It was because our lives are packed things to do, because we are until we go to bed? It was because we had a whole day just to play, have fun, creative? No plans, no commitments, no worries everything seems to play a role in "Time", we must.

In the last article I wrote about the delay to assist in the processing of communication, but in this article I will focus on the broader concept of the delay of our lives in general. I will admit that from the beginning, I was guilty of one of those people who need fast, some of my advice to slow down. I have worked on this very hard over the last few months, and the feeling that I have made some progress, but it was difficult. If you think, "I can not sit and watch the television broadcast for 30 minutes without something else at the same time," it is necessary to stop and assess the pace of his life.

I know that we are all busy, and it must happen every day, but sometimes the key to speeding up and how to do is to slow down. So many parents tell me that they feel to run here, there and everywhere transporting their children to a number of sporting events, therapy, hobbies, and other trips that feel that they live in their car. What the healthy way to work and what kind of band we are rushing into the environment at any time?

In thinking about this e-zine article, I decided I would just Google the term time and slow. Wow, I was surprised at all the things I found! So if the movement is slow in our life know why I heard that? I found two pages, where I have time monitoring and reading the content. Everything has been said a lot of sense to me. One of the best things I found there was the idea that delay can actually improve communication and relationships with other people. Time to stop and really listen, we're a deeper level of understanding the other person and, if possible, make a good relationship with this person. I know that when I was in a hurry or have many things in my mind I did not do a very good job of communicating with others, or give to all my relations. Usually what happens in these cases is that I listen to just enough to answer, then to me, and when the interview is over, that's out of my head. I have noticed that if I slow down and my full attention to the call, I got a lot easier with a reference to what was discussed and the interaction feel like a real connection there.

Many children with autistic spectrum disorder have difficulty with communication, social interaction and building relationships with others. The fight against the ability is to assess the situation and flexible. If we think in the context of our fast-growing world, it is no wonder that people with autistic spectrum disorders struggle with the field? It is as if they were wired for optimal performance at a slower pace, but they are in the whirlwind of our contemporary society.

So, what if we try to slow down, speed up? What if we were involved, or is governed by our children with autistic spectrum disorders, for instance, slowed down and allowed time for reflection? Amazing things start to happen when the pace slows. I have this experience again and again. A child who was not connected deregulated and suddenly begins to edit, and close based on the fact that you have slowed down and that he can handle what is happening. So if this can happen during the planned activities, what would happen if a concerted effort to slow the pace of our lives?

I can not tell you what I saw my chance work with the families an effort to slow their lives. Their children are beginning to meaningful relationships with parents and significant others bound in their world. Start the communication for the exchange of experience and new discoveries. The nice thing is that this is not just for children with autistic spectrum disorders, but we expand our horizons to broaden and accelerate new discoveries, when we take time to slow down, and the process of our world.

by horizonsdrc